1 Corinthians 7.25-38

25  Now concerning virgins, I have no command of the Lord, but I give my opinion as one

    who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy.

26  I think that, in view of the impending crisis, it is well for you to remain as you are.

27  Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife.

28  But if you marry, you do not sin, and if a virgin marries, she does not sin. Yet those who

    marry will experience distress in this life, and I would spare you that.

29  I mean, brothers and sisters,£ the appointed time has grown short; from now on, let even

    those who have wives be as though they had none,

30  and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though

    they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no possessions,

31  and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form

    of this world is passing away.

32  I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the affairs of the Lord,

    how to please the Lord;

33  but the married man is anxious about the affairs of the world, how to please his wife,

34  and his interests are divided. And the unmarried woman and the virgin are anxious about the

    affairs of the Lord, so that they may be holy in body and spirit; but the married woman is anxious

    about the affairs of the world, how to please her husband.

35  I say this for your own benefit, not to put any restraint upon you, but to promote good order

    and unhindered devotion to the Lord.

36  If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his fiancée,  if his passions are strong,

    and so it has to be, let him marry as he wishes; it is no sin. Let them marry.

37  But if someone stands firm in his resolve, being under no necessity but having his own desire

    under control, and has determined in his own mind to keep her as his fiancée,  he will do well.

38  So then, he who marries his fiancée  does well; and he who refrains from marriage will do better.